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When I was little, it
seemed that the only terrible thing that concerned small children was that the
Russians would one day bomb us. At
school, we practiced for that emergency.
My greatest fear was that I would strike out or drop the ball at the
Little League games and embarrass my father.
My little farm community was safe and secure. Most pre-teen children were basically
innocent of worldly matters. Typical
questions were naïve and unknowing. Here
are some questions I am afraid my grandchildren might one day ask me. Now my fear is how to answer them.
“How come, Grandpa, some convenience stores and grocery
markets sell those cigarette wrapping papers?
If they are used for drugs as some of my friends say, how can the store
owners do that when they know it will hurt people?”
“Grandpa, why do some people put bad things in our Halloween
candy?”
“Grandpa, what is a drive-by shooting?”
“How come, Grandpa, AIDS is killing millions of people? Why don’t we find a cure?
How come, Grandpa, so many shows on TV make me feel
uncomfortable with the things the actors say and do?
“How come, Grandpa, Mommy says there are bad men out there
who want to hurt me? Why would anyone
want to hurt a little girl?”
“How come, Grandpa, Daddy says that it is not safe to travel
through
“How come, Grandpa, people laugh when they talk about our
last President and some woman named, Monica?”
“How come, Grandpa, some kids have been shot in schools
around our country? Is my school safe?”
“Grandpa, why would anyone want to crash planes into the
“Grandpa, I am scared.
Sometimes Mommy and Daddy argue.
Betty says no one stays married any more. Does that mean that Mommy and Daddy are going
to get a divorce? What would happen to
me?”
“How come, Grandpa, those sports and movie stars make
millions of dollars a year, and our teachers, fireman, and police average only
$35,000?”
“Why, Grandpa, do some kids use bad language at school and
on the bus? How can my classmates say
such terrible words?”
“Why, Grandpa, did Uncle Bill come back from that war in
“Grandpa, you say that my purpose in life is to leave
something positive behind when I leave this world. Why don’t more people try to do good things?”